Too much is too much !! Craigslist Missed Connections If an ad posted on Jacksonville, NC is to believe, a brand new dad hit the Internet in search of pretty labor and delivery nurse who helped his wife to give birth to their baby .
"It's probably a long shot, but you were the nurse taking care of my wife while she was our baby," the announcement bed "I enjoyed our eye contact and would really like to talk to you more. Maybe tomorrow I'll be there most of the day and I'll hit you in the way of dining or see you at the aid station. "
This can not be true, right? Certainly, men must bond with their newborns - at least enough to control the impulses attraction around the nurses deliver said children in the world? We hope to hoax, and did a little digging.
There are not a ton of research on how the delivery room-link dads with babies; many more studies have examined the link between mother and child after birth. However, Ruth Feldman, psychology professor at Bar-Ilan University in Israel, sought to analyze the reactions of post-birth dads back to a 2010 study published in Biological Psychiatry.
Feldman measured the levels of 80 groups of oxytocin's parents, and found mothers and fathers had similar levels of this key chemical, sometimes called "cuddle hormone," just after childbirth. Oxytocin levels were also higher among partners rather than men and single women, showing the shared task of caring for a newborn and helps bond the two parents. So in other words, moms and married or coupled up dads are quite in tune with each other.
Spikes in oxytocin promote feelings of calm, connectivity and trust, with actions such as touching, holding, hugging and attention - a kind of love loop that keeps parents and children together. This is fine, because research shows children connection with parents as a child are happier and less disturbed as they grow.
The effect of oxytocin on the brain also appears against the implications of the announcement Jacksonville Craigslist. Dads in the delivery room are generally quite concentrated in the mother and baby. "This seems to be the way to help men become good parents when they have a baby of evolution," said Feldman The Daily Mail.
There are always exceptions to the rule, though, so of course, the gross failure Craigslist could be legitimate. Dr. Jamin Brahmbhatt, co-director of the PUR clinic and specialist issues relating to the health of humans, said another hormone oxytocin could be to blame for the wild post this guy.
"Research has also shown a decrease in testosterone in men before their spouse gives birth," said Dr. Brahmbhatt Yahoo health. "In this case, it may have a hormonal imbalance, and that the increase in testosterone could lead at a higher libido. "
And if the hormones are not incite behavior, Dr. Brahmbhatt said it could be a psycho-social aspect of the game. "Many men go through sympathetic pregnancy, and that increased emotional state could lead to feel marginalized, "he said, explaining that dads can sometimes feel as if they no longer needed as working approaches.
However, more than likely (and more often), dad feels a pull towards mom and baby in the delivery room - nurses did not suspect anything. Phew.
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